Having a baby: desires or decision?





In your testimony, having a baby is a necessity
vital that supports hard enough waiting times imposed by
biological constraints.
Despite your desire imperative child, you have carefully considered all
before designing this baby. With modern methods of contraception,
realization of his desire to have children stems from a genuine desire: it
must want to stop refusing to have a child.
So you have a majority "decided" to put a baby on the way. In
more of your accounts, property and professional
joint has delayed the design of the child. But sometimes you
just wanted to wait before taking THE DECISION to a
child until you feel "ready" to receive it.

When one decides to have a baby and that it does not work ...
Many who have written are all more aware of their
desire for a child they have faced difficulties (or even
impossibilities). The medicalization of fertilization, and adoption are
Two things often not experienced by women who feel a sense
failure, frustration.

If some do not overcome the disappointment of not being able to have
biological child, others seem completely filled by
adoption. Psychologically, they have lived through the period approaches
Administrative such as pregnancy, with its expectations and fears ...
Development, moreover, that the baby's arrival has spurred some new
their fertility!

Whatever your situation, your desire for a child you at all,
gave tremendous energy to persevere, sometimes for long
years, until the little one you've been waiting ever so finally
there ... And you think it's worth it!


Source: Info Bebe